It was puzzling when I heard this but that is the situation.
A newly married woman discovered that her husband wasn’t into lingerie and sexy
night wear. He found them repulsive and actually said ‘Do not wear these things
worn by prostitutes’
You can imagine how shocked she was to discover that her
husband felt this way about lace and stuff. She had bought loads of sexy night
wears, baby dolls and underwear to prepare for passionate nights in her
marriage. That was what she got.
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| I like this number by the way. Victoria Secrets has such lovely lingerie. | Source |
The couple had met in church and got married a few months ago. The lady was away in another state most of that time. Youth service I think. So they kept in touch and immediately she was done, they got married.
The lady obviously is troubled by this situation which was
why she was talking about it. I don’t know how this has affected their sex life
either. I think every woman wants to feel sexy, wear something sexy and gets
admired by the man in her life. I could be wrong though. But I really don’t know
how I’d feel if my husband wanted me to wear only those unattractive, long,
shapeless night wears to bed each night because he felt that see-through ‘show-me-what-you-got
night wears and underwear should only be worn by hookers.
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There’s a part of every woman that wants to be
some wild seductress or superhero – Alana de la Garza. Source
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I think it would be hard for a woman who is used to treating
herself to lingerie to adjust to this but for a woman who didn’t think that
kind of stuff meant anything, it wouldn’t even be an issue.
So what do you guys think? Should she try to get him to like
lingerie? (Why does that sound seriously weird?) Even if it doesn’t affect
their sex life much? (If she is complaining, then something is wrong or is it
just me?)
Happy new month and have a beautiful week ahead.
Lily Johnson
This is a tough one. Maybe he's had bad experiences. I suggest they both talk about it and reach a compromise or something. If she however doesn't mind, then she can indulge him
ReplyDeleteMy dear, it is really tough. I don't even know what to say about it but i guess it's up to her to manage the situation.
ReplyDeleteI wish i could laugh. Chai.
ReplyDeleteTakes note of questions to ask Mr Could be Right..."What do you think of lingerie?"
This is where I have issues with people who carry pre-marital sex on their head, forgetting that 'no sex' doesnt mean you shouldnt try and find out each other's views about sexual matters/compatibility so you don't get shockers like this...that is of course assuming that these two adhered to that code.
In fact, one should ask many many things ooo. I couldn't believe it. I believe she didn't ever think that he would be like that. Serious dilemma I tell you.
DeleteThey need to sit down and have some straight up talk I tell you. Let him say what's on his mind. She's already in it oh so she might as well do her best to make it work. There'll definitely be some progress if they talk about it gently, no matter how small
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