May this new month bring to us blessings immeasurable and God’s divine protection in Jesus Name, Amen.
So just as some people have said though I’m not sure I like the way they are going about it, I really do want the whole Ese Walters case to just end. Instead of church members [if they are] going to blogs to trash the lady, I feel they should rather hold their peace and pray for their pastor because whether or not Ese’s story is true, the man of God needs prayers now more than anything.
The ridiculous jokes are just too crazy. I read an ‘interview’ on Myne’s blog. Read it here. Sad and totally unnecessary. I can’t help but wonder how Pastor Biodun’s wife feels about all this. I mean walking in her shoes at this time cannot be easy. Take away the whole church thingy; I asked myself these questions: if my husband makes the stupid decision to cheat on me [God abeg o!] in as much as I would want him to feel the pain I feel for being betrayed in that way and how I would want him to suffer a little [ok not a little], would I want it to be the talk about town? Would I want it to be on every blog and every magazine and newspaper with the tag ‘sizzling’? Would I want to look at people’s faces and wonder what they think of me? Why the man I married decided to leave our matrimonial bed and seek sexual pleasures outside our bedroom? People are going to wonder if I am good in bed. Maybe I don’t give him enough action or his ‘kind of action’. How painfully embarrassing!
No, I don’t think any woman would want to share the news of her husband’s infidelity with a whole nation especially if he is a man of God. Hilary Clinton and a number of other women had to go through this. But their husbands weren’t men who preached against stuff like that to the world.
I’m not saying Ese was wrong for doing this because only God knows her state of mind when she did what she did. It probably seemed right to her at the time so who am I to judge? In fact, I am not writing this to judge anyone. I just feel for the other woman in the story. In ordinary circumstances, people would have blamed his wife for not being able to ‘keep her husband’. Only a few people are going to recognize that the man has a problem and should seek help. Oh yeah and a large number of people are going to say ‘She knew she was marrying a womanizer. So this shouldn’t shock her’
So for her sake, I wish this whole saga ends. No more talks. No more Facebook account opened to say they have evidence. No more anonymous blog comments with even more graphic details. No more.
May God help us all. Have a fantastic week ahead.