Falling in love is a beautiful thing. You know, the sudden smile when you remember how he looks at you, the happiness you feel knowing that you would see him again soon and the weakness in your knees when he kisses you.
It is simply wonderful.
But sometimes, this beautiful feeling can be….well everything but beautiful and wonderful.
Sometimes, women {or men} find themselves in love and wishing they could just fall out of it. They want to feel burning hatred for a partner instead of the passionate love they once felt.
The major reason why people seek this change is betrayal. Once a lover is betrayed, she/he feels so bad; so hurt that it ruins a lot and a lot more is seen in another light.
When some people prove the age old statement “There is a thin line between love and hate” absolutely right, the deep, sentimental and emotional seem to show that there is a thin line between love and extreme pain, rivers of tears and neurosis.
When these people are betrayed (or even constantly so), they find it hard to instantly despise the person and move on.
And even when they finally break up with the person, instead of tearing pictures and breaking gifts in blind rage, they just curl up and suffer. The problem for them isn’t just moving on. It is falling out of love. It is wanting desperately to stop loving the person.
This makes them feel weak, fickle and terribly indecisive which causes them more pain.
It is wrong to feel this way. You are not weak, fickle and indecisive. You fell in love genuinely and gave all you had. You just need a little more time to get over it.
And darling, take your time.
If you have ever found yourself in love, you are a strong person
If you have been in love before and it didn’t work out and you are still standing, you are stronger.
And if you have been in love before and had your heart broken and you managed to get over it and is still willing to try again, dearest, you are the strongest of them all.
I wish you all the strength you need to face every situation you will ever find yourself in.
Lily Johnson.
