Love is the best feeling of all feelings. To love and to
know that you are loved as well with the same intensity. That smile when you
remember some stuff you guys do together. That feeling of contentment that you
get when you remember him. Most times, the world sort of fades away when you
are with him. The touch, the kiss, the peace....
It is so easy to get totally lost in this. It is even okay
if it is with the right man. A man who would not take advantage of it and ruin
you. A man who cannot but destroy everything that comes his way. A man who is in
ruins himself and can’t offer any better to anyone.
Imagine being hopelessly and desperately in love with a drug
addict. What good can come out of it? He is probably the most handsome and
loving man in the world. He tells you every day that he loves you and would
kill himself if you leave him. And you believe him because when you didn’t call
him for a day, he actually did cut himself. You are the only one he has because
his family has stopped caring.
He is good at what he does but anytime they find
out about his drug issue, he gets sacked. So he is in and out of jobs. It is a
sad situation because he does try to quit. But never checks himself into any
rehab. When you met him, you didn’t have the slightest idea he did drugs and
when you found out, it was too late. The fact is, many women would totally
forget themselves and what is right thing to do in this situation which is checking
him into rehab or running as far away as possible. They choose to stay and end
up addicts themselves and ruin two lives.
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It is not easy of course to run when
you are in love. But if you love him enough, you should get him to clean up. Do
it with all your strength and will and if he loves you, he would want to be
better for your sake. If he doesn’t, what does that tell you?
Imagine falling desperately and hopelessly in love with an assassin/armed
robber. He sent you gifts like Santa Claus after the first date. You couldn’t believe
it. Then you began dating and it got better. He took to places that you didn’t think
you would ever go to. You had access to his beautiful house and car. You loved
him. He made you happy.
