Strolling back to the Original Garden are we ladies?

I am one of those people that believe that you should wear whatever you are comfortable in. Or whatever you think looks good on you. Because that way you will be confident and carry yourself well and of course this will make you look good. Somehow. And if it doesn’t, oh well, you at least pleased yourself.

Anyway, I don’t do a lot of dresses because I am not a dress person. I am a jeans/pants person. If you catch me in a dress, [or a skirt] then you are at a function with me. I am one of those ladies that would say ‘Halleluyah’ if I am invited to a wedding that I am not going to be any part of anything like the bridal train and stuff because I’m getting my pants ironed babe. [I know it is crazy and unheard of but I have a reason but still... ‘I don’t wanna go there’ *in Chris Brown’s voice] I am gradually changing though. Too many beautiful dresses out there.

Someone said my 'wings' were sprouting nicely. Loooool. With my hands down, the wings disappear though. #shrugs#

I honestly don’t know what is up with the rather revealing dresses ladies wear these days. I can’t say it enough that I am all for looking, being and feeling sexy but it shouldn’t be taken to the point where people are seeing the shape, size and colour of your privates. I am not saying it because I think you might be setting a bad example, or because I am on a sanctimonious row. No. If you are going to be photographed and seen by people, they are going to stop seeing whatever got you there in the first place which is always a good thing and start talking about your exposed body. And even see what is not there. With the near nude dresses we see these days, the original garden where Eve walked sans clothes is beginning to look like it has nothing on us.

These ladies got the bashing for these outfits of late.

Beverly Naya [I hear she is a very good actress and once watched her being interviewed. She spoke so well and even when the rather saucy TV person was trying to be smart with some irrelevant questions, she was cool. Handled it well.

Dencia. Singer

Oh well, to each his own though. I just don't like it when people trash a woman who is very talented or who is good at what she does because of stuff like this. Words like 'slut' 'trashy' begin to fly around. Not cool.

Have yourselves a lovely week people

Lily Johnson