tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5047187274585660771.post2317621652502976671..comments2024-02-10T09:39:09.907-08:00Comments on Lily Vee Johnson: Time to play dumb.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05138130931988628398noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5047187274585660771.post-82747203809276086062011-02-11T00:12:42.211-08:002011-02-11T00:12:42.211-08:00Good advice lily but i think she should move out o...Good advice lily but i think she should move out o. that kind man would one day force himself on her and then it will really be a tale. Because she is being calm about things, a man in that state of mind will think its a silent encouragement. She has a few options her. Warn him big time and move back home or avoid him at all cost and move in her sister's shadows so he barely has her alone. wickedness of (some) men i tell ya!Mrs Newlywedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05442576411740424363noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5047187274585660771.post-51207372346470548182010-11-04T19:15:56.614-07:002010-11-04T19:15:56.614-07:00Thanks :)
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Thanks for the comment.<br /><br />@ShadeNonConformist: Thanks for the comment. I thought so too. What if he is just a harmless flirt? It is dangerous though so i agree with you.<br />Don't know how i came up with that line. Thanks.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05138130931988628398noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5047187274585660771.post-46665533242099720342010-11-03T10:29:32.163-07:002010-11-03T10:29:32.163-07:00@NGH: My dear, i didn't even think about that ...@NGH: My dear, i didn't even think about that o! If she is interested, believe me she hid it quite well. The guy was giving her money because..well...she is his sister in law and she is a student. She really wanted me to like tell her to go 'Comando' on the guy and i was like "Girl, if you are just speculating, cool down. Some guys are terrible sha! Impregnating your own wife's sister! You are right. The ball is really in her court. I haven't seen her since then to know how far. Thanks for your comment dear. It made me think and laugh!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05138130931988628398noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5047187274585660771.post-91638299722244954852010-11-01T18:48:56.100-07:002010-11-01T18:48:56.100-07:00Awesome advice! I love that you told her it was ti...Awesome advice! I love that you told her it was time to play dumb! Hilarious and true!Climb2Nowherehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01401286435338987951noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5047187274585660771.post-5027834501306625862010-10-29T03:59:02.228-07:002010-10-29T03:59:02.228-07:00Sometimes, silence is not just golden but, awesome...Sometimes, silence is not just golden but, awesome.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5047187274585660771.post-52943830860051924902010-10-28T12:31:48.733-07:002010-10-28T12:31:48.733-07:00Interesting stuff. I quite agree with you. It'...Interesting stuff. I quite agree with you. It's possible that the man may just be naturally flirtatious (but he should know where to draw the line...He's not a child). <br /><br />I guess until he explicitly states his intention, she should just mind her business but definitely avoid being around him alone (assumptions never help). Or even still, instead of the avoiding crap, respectfully tell him that what he says and how he behaves makes her uncomfortable...<br /><br />Priceless = "Then add some drama by telling him that she is grateful to God that men like him that fear God still exist."Shadenonconformhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09684872244505806973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5047187274585660771.post-30475548963485281022010-10-28T08:52:16.267-07:002010-10-28T08:52:16.267-07:00you handled that very well - what baffles me is wh...you handled that very well - what baffles me is why was he giving Pam money??? I think by accepting it she may get herself into a bad situation where he eventually "expects" something in return or I am reading too much into this :DCarma Sezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01897159620671834070noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5047187274585660771.post-88233127886391848782010-10-27T15:06:09.605-07:002010-10-27T15:06:09.605-07:00Seriously, it happened to my father's tenant. ...Seriously, it happened to my father's tenant. Her younger sister complained to my cousin what the man was up to. He advised her, but this gal later succumbed because of the monetary gain & aborted a pregnancy for him, but they were later caught red-handed by the wife & the gal was sent packing & the couples moved out because of the shame. <br /><br />Likewise, my 3rd cousin had to help her friend's sister from her brother-in-law. The friend traveled abroad for a year course & the hubby who is a pastor was harassing the sister who was there to help take care of the kids. This gal had to cry out to my cousin,& said she wanted to move out...but who would look after the kids & what reason would she give her parents? so my cousin took it upon herself to be spending several nights with them until the guy got the message & he stopped before my cousin got a job in Lagos.<br />So Lily...one just have to be careful...THE BALL IS IN HER COURT....HOW SHE PLAYS IT DEPENDS ON HER.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5047187274585660771.post-81377770510757153692010-10-27T14:46:22.373-07:002010-10-27T14:46:22.373-07:00Exactly my thoughts! you said it all!
But, hope ...Exactly my thoughts! you said it all! <br /><br />But, hope the gal ain't interested o & be pretending, & looking for a kind of support?..<br /><br />You see, she might like the 'chase' but afraid to do it because of what people would say, & if the guy finds her weakness which can be money, he would capitalize on it , & without really asking her out, there would be a telepathic message btw both.<br /><br />I say this because if a woman DON'T want a man, she KNOWS how to send him the message without minding words but if her interest is tickled a little, then she would be trying to find excuse to justify her action, hence her coming to you for the fact that you ain't close...such matters are usually confided in a best friend or as an anonymous in a relationship column.... chei you get?<br /><br />Is the man good looking & has the money to spend?....if yes, then watch out for season 2 of this drama..[i know, i don come with my trouble -shooting wahala again..*grinning*)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5047187274585660771.post-28809004390167637582010-10-26T20:55:47.156-07:002010-10-26T20:55:47.156-07:00@King of New York: Thanks for the comment. I agree...@King of New York: Thanks for the comment. I agree with you. She should move out.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05138130931988628398noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5047187274585660771.post-61317307098917486362010-10-26T20:52:15.595-07:002010-10-26T20:52:15.595-07:00@King of New York: Thanks for the comment. I agree...@King of New York: Thanks for the comment. I agree with you. She should move out.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05138130931988628398noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5047187274585660771.post-21237496689158130882010-10-26T17:32:21.202-07:002010-10-26T17:32:21.202-07:00The Human condition and intuition are usually the ...The Human condition and intuition are usually the winners, or losers depending on the outcome, but I hope she moves out to avoid a very messy situation. Peace.King of New York Hackshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08202932202319991075noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5047187274585660771.post-31639213685663202102010-10-26T15:42:00.085-07:002010-10-26T15:42:00.085-07:00@Lara: Thanks for the comment. I totally agree wit...@Lara: Thanks for the comment. I totally agree with you. She should look for another place to stay before things get crazy.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05138130931988628398noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5047187274585660771.post-46125782529064917912010-10-26T01:32:51.183-07:002010-10-26T01:32:51.183-07:00Yeah she should stay dumb for the time, since he h...Yeah she should stay dumb for the time, since he has not done or said anything, but i think she should also be on the look out for another place to stay before things get out of hand.Molara Brownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15028561658576923679noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5047187274585660771.post-51804311312376005612010-10-25T22:12:52.940-07:002010-10-25T22:12:52.940-07:00@Mamuje: Thanks for the comment and i see your poi...@Mamuje: Thanks for the comment and i see your point. This lady wanted to like tell HER SISTER that her husband was coming unto her. She wanted to do something and i only told her not to say anything until something serious happens. He hasn't even touched or said anything to her. If he had, i am sure she would have warned him off. And, yes getting out of there is a good option.<br /><br />@CC: Thanks dear<br /><br />@Linda: Thanks for the comment Mama. The point here is that she wants to tell someone other than the man; her sister.That was why she came to me. Besides, i also thought that the guy might be a harmless flirt. But she should be sure of what he is up to before she acts. Though i agree with telling him he is making her uncomfortable nicely.<br /><br />@Nutty J: Thanks for the comment. The word here is caution. I actually think Mamuje's action was wise. I would have done the same thing.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05138130931988628398noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5047187274585660771.post-91184791722642056232010-10-25T07:19:52.153-07:002010-10-25T07:19:52.153-07:00I agree with Mamuje...I agree with Mamuje...Nutty J.https://www.blogger.com/profile/13532350273229270590noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5047187274585660771.post-42993588384845958652010-10-24T20:07:03.599-07:002010-10-24T20:07:03.599-07:00Dearest Lily,
You are so very smart. Of course Pam...Dearest Lily,<br />You are so very smart. Of course Pam can't say or do anything, because the husband is always right. It's a good thing she came to you for some straight talk.Sandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09894333322881236627noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5047187274585660771.post-75046842248598758482010-10-24T11:39:15.358-07:002010-10-24T11:39:15.358-07:00I'm a little inclined to agree with Ginger her...I'm a little inclined to agree with Ginger here. If you tell someone (nicely) that they are making you uncomfortable, they will usually stop. The guy is probably just a harmless flirt, but if it makes the woman feel awkward, she should tell him it's making her uncomfortable.Linda Medranohttp://thegoodthebadtheworse.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5047187274585660771.post-36237096593257730512010-10-24T07:11:28.535-07:002010-10-24T07:11:28.535-07:00Great advice, darling!
I totally agree with you!
...Great advice, darling!<br />I totally agree with you!<br /><br />xoxox,<br />CCCouture Carriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07401719580947285891noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5047187274585660771.post-91824306735805541962010-10-24T06:52:03.427-07:002010-10-24T06:52:03.427-07:00Well its obvious he wants something, but she shoul...Well its obvious he wants something, but she shouldnt encourage it. My advise would be to move out if its gonna save the situation. She doesnt want the man to literarily come up to her before she takes an action.<br /><br />The exact same thing happened to me. The man even touched me. I decided to move back to my parents house. I didnt tell my step-sister anything. There wasnt any point. Now I am older and less vulnurable, he wont even dare try it now.Mamujehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03742203895366744189noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5047187274585660771.post-8394969173519889042010-10-23T22:45:09.981-07:002010-10-23T22:45:09.981-07:00@Ginger: Hey Ginger. Thanks for the comment. You k...@Ginger: Hey Ginger. Thanks for the comment. You know he hasn't really said anything yet. Hasn't touched her either so I just feel she should wait till something more serious like the talking and may be touching happens before she acts.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05138130931988628398noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5047187274585660771.post-76121754740055142692010-10-23T16:21:50.270-07:002010-10-23T16:21:50.270-07:00Hey Lily. You know my honest 2pence? The girl shou...Hey Lily. You know my honest 2pence? The girl should warn him off next time he says anything untoward. 'Uncle, I would appreciate it if you dont talk, touch me like that again. I dont like it. it's not right and it makes me uncomfortable'. <br />I've been in this situation before. Pretended it wasnt happening and had a miserable time of it. Till the day I took the bull by the horns and warned him off. Better than get into some real nasty situation.Gingerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10294850491382303707noreply@blogger.com